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The Kink List
324 plain-language prompts, grouped into ten themes, rated on an honest four-point scale. The list is the test — and the test is comparable.
A kink list is only useful if it gives you a vocabulary you can actually use with a partner. This one is built for that:
Couples mode
Take it together, get one shared profile, see overlap and mutual curiosities — never what one of you said no to.
Party mode
Up to 200 people, anonymous, aggregate-only results. Hosts see themes, not individual answers.
No signup, no email
One private Vibe Code is your whole account. Take it on your phone, finish on your laptop.
Compare with anyone
Two or more Vibe Codes generate an instant compatibility view — overlaps and shared curiosities, nothing exposed.
The list is organized into ten themes. Each prompt is a short, specific phrase — not a paragraph and not a euphemism — so you always know what you're rating. The four-point scale (Fuck Yeah, Yes, Curious, No) means you don't have to lie to make progress.
The ten themes
- Power Exchange
- Bondage & Restraint
- Sensation Play
- Roleplay & Fantasy
- Voyeur / Exhibition
- Aftercare & Comfort
- Kink-Curious
- Pacing & Edging
- Sensual Connection
- Toys & Gear
Use it as a catalogue, a test, or a couples worksheet
Some people just scroll the list to learn the vocabulary. Some take it solo for self-knowledge. Couples take it side-by-side and generate one shared compatibility view. Party hosts run it for groups up to 200 with aggregate-only results. Pick whichever fits.
Frequently asked
What is a kink list?
A kink list (sometimes called a kink checklist or kinklist) is a structured catalogue of sexual interests with a way to rate each one. It gives partners a shared vocabulary so 'what are you into?' has a real answer instead of a shrug.
How many items are on this kink list?
324 prompts across ten themes: Power Exchange, Bondage & Restraint, Sensation Play, Roleplay & Fantasy, Voyeur / Exhibition, Aftercare & Comfort, Kink-Curious, Pacing & Edging, Sensual Connection, and Toys & Gear.
How is a kink list different from a kink test?
A list is the catalogue of items. A test is the same list plus a scale and a result. Ours is both — you rate each item on a four-point scale and get a themed profile you can compare with a partner.
Can I export or print the list?
You don't need to — your Vibe Code holds your answers, and you can share that code with a partner to compare instantly. Sharing the raw list isn't necessary.
Is the language safe for newcomers?
Yes. We use kink-fluent category language (Power Exchange, Sensation Play) rather than clinical or graphic labels. The prompts themselves are plain and specific so you're never guessing what's being asked.
Does the list get updated?
Yes. The prompt set evolves based on community feedback. Retake any time — your Vibe Code stays the same.
Take it now
About 5 minutes for a first read. Stop whenever — your Vibe Code holds your place.